I lost my husband 2 1/2 years ago, He was such important part of my life, my friend, lover, father to our children and a brother and son. I feel I have nothing left and wish I could join them. I truly thought I could not go on without him but every day gets better. The saying "If one hadn't loved so deeply one would not grieve" gives me comfort in my grief. But I carry on! Our 16-year-old sleeps with me every night because she doesn't want me to be alone and says her daddy would want her to be with me. I miss him. I try to go on for our kids, but sometimes it seems like they're the strongest. We were happy. 20 Husband Poems - Love and Thank You Poems for Husbands I knew from the moment he introduced himself on our first date, that this was the man I was going to marry. I miss him so much. I sit alone now in the darkness of despair. And he fought to the very end. Now it's silent. Now I feel so lonely and lost. Her words helped make me feel not alone in my feelings as I approach the second anniversary of my beloved, Lou on 8-2-16. He fought hard to stay with us. We were never apart for more than a few days the entire 22 years. It's not the easiest thing, but I am determined that I will live and not die. I want to honor him every minute of every day. He was in the hospital for two months and passed away at 39. I am lost. I loved him since I was in high school and in love with him since we got married 15 years ago and we had happy wonderful life. You will go on - as days and nights still continue to come and go. Resting, watching the news. My love, my sweetheart. My husband died in front of me in our living room. Suddenly in April 2018 she went away. I feel my life is over. My wonderful husband died one month and two days ago. I want you to take away my fear. I terribly missed him, super missed. I felt helpless, horrified, and devastated! October 23rd, 2016 at 3:04 PM. I had 11 years to go until age 66. My grief is so raw. I feel so guilty because he said he would die within the year he would die, I didn't take him seriously and we had 1 anniversary and never again will we share another one. So she came home for 3 weeks of home hospice for which we did 24/7 as she never would sleep but maybe 2 hours a day. I lost my wonderful husband, Brian, on November 22, 2013. We began dating and married in October 2007. My worst time every year runs from Halloween to Valentines Day(our anniversary) and then it subsides and picks up again June-August (her diagnosis to our ending). We experienced all of the for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health before we even got married as he lived with end stage renal failure prior to us getting married. I love him and miss him every minute of every day. wanting you and needing you. It's only been 60 days since his life and most of mine ended. I think he knew. Everyone says it gets better with time, but that's a lie it does not ever go away. {{{hugs}}} to you and your son. My husband went to the hospital on February 24 with complaints of pains in his left shoulder. I, too, lost my soul mate April 28th 2017 in our home. 12 yearsI can only imagine the pain and hurt. September came and went, so did October. I hope some of this pain goes away in the next few months. I Miss You Poems for Him, Missing Your Lover Poems I miss you so much! He showed me how to be a better person, father, partner and lover. He was a talented singer too and a very loving and caring husband and father for 39 years. I will never forget him he was the love of my life and I adored him. My wife retired at age 55. She brings me comfort. I carry on My life is so empty now. I cry all the time, nights are worse for me. He could only sit reclined on the couch anymore, so I was sitting next to him while he slept. My husband died in a car accident on Feb 1, 2017. Can't stop crying. Poem About Being Lost Without Wife I was down tonight thinking of my wife who passed away in April 2011. I pray every day I will get through this. My life is so different. I was hurt and devastated. God is always with us. If only we could go back and love like this again! I am in the heaven that you dream of. My kids are going to be too young to remember their daddy, but I just don't want to be here without him. She was only 62, and I'm 64. Thank you. I cry driving, showering, and anything else. It just seems like it is not real. They say as time goes by it gets easy will I am still waiting for that time. Our children miss her so much. We were married for 28 years and have two wonderful children. I don't know how to live, I was 16 when we became inseparable. I was young but wise. Evans was a Victorian novelist. I have lost a son. He had leukemia, and in spite of horrendous induction chemo, he went in less than 2 months. I wish I could've changed places with him or that God would take my life as well. It was a very aggressive cancer. Oh hell, where and how can I move on? We were very close, and I still can't believe I'll never see his sweet smile, hold his hand, or enjoy his since of humor! Cry Not For Me. Here I am with our son at the age of 12 when his father passed away and not understanding how this can happen. Life was wonderful and safe with him. I'm sorry for your loss. Missing your husband is bittersweet. I am only 62 and I just wish I had some kind of closure although I do not think that would help either. He was only 54 years old. He left me with so many questions, in a void like a black hole. My beloved husband, Paul, who I cry daily to be with, passed away March 25, 2021. You are now in a better place. When you find your soulmate and think you will be together forever, it just feels like a nightmare. Your mesmerizing touch. The darkness frightens me. I go over that morning every day in my mind, thinking maybe he called me and I didn't hear him. I miss him everyday and I still have his ashes in my home as I cannot part with them yet. I'm reading these because a friend just passed away. Thank you my friend for that. Common Mistakes: the word "i" should be capitalized, "u" is not a word, and "im" is spelled "I'm" or "I am". I have been told that things get better with time but I am finding it getting worse as I come to terms with the fact that I will never see him again. I still cry some days and I miss him. He was a one of a kind husband that I loved so very much. It's so hard trying to wrap my brain around him not being here. I wanted to retire to travel with her, but now I have nothing but work to keep me going. The up and down wave of grief hits me every day. He passed one week after bringing him home. He is my Johnmy precious John! Nothing makes me happy because my love is not here with me! I'm just an empty shell without him. I wish I could afford one and drive it for us. wanting you and needing you. I lost my husband of 19 years on 10/15/16 at 9:27 AM. I still miss him more than ever, Dear Kathy, Thank you to all my sisters in this agony of pain for your sharing. I have changed for I, too, died when she did. Sweet dreams Babe. My 2 grandsons helped him stand and walk him through our mobile home to the bedroom. We had a business together that we worked at every day together. I love Him so much. They are buried across from each other. I am not interested in playing "the game again" and was always a one and only. On September 1, I lost my husband and 12-year-old son in a terrible car accident. I married a lady who lost her fianc just before the alter. Many adjustments ahead. He was such a great husband and father. God bless you and give you comfort in the days ahead. The doctor said about 5 months. But your post was beautiful and a positive way to look at each day. And cry those silent tears. I'm not ok - but it's normal - normal to feel empty, sad, alone in a crowd, angry, guilty, abandoned, loved, left, different, impatient and no idea who you are or what you like as a single person. Still I grope in the dark hoping I'll touch him, still I listen to silence hoping he'll say something. I took an early retirement as my wife needed me more than anything. He was diagnosed in January with lung and brain cancer. He was a very good father and loving Husband. I lost my husband on February 1st, 2017. He had heart attack and 4 strokes. He made me whole, and for that I am forever grateful. I refused to believe the doctors, but he died 18 days later. Nothing prepares you for it. I can't stay in my house because it is so empty without him. Featured Shared Story I lost my wife on February 4th, 2021 to cancer after 4-and-a-half-year battle in remission. I lost my husband 28 weeks ago on his birthday. My husband fell out of bed when I wasn't there to watch him. He was my soulmate, my best friend! Our Grandsons helped. Every day is hard for me. My husband died five years ago at age 58. Motorcycle accident. I feel I can't take it anymore! I'm still trying to make since of this. Grace A. Mandry. He was not my husband - very weak, frail, his emotional state was very bad. My name is Nicole. I lost my Husband in a tragic vehicle accident 5 years ago leaving me with a then 12, 10 & 8 years olds. I, too, can't understand that he won't be coming to bed or coming home, ever again. My friends and family try to be helpful, but they just don't understand. God bless you, sir. We had so many plans. I'll never forget hearing those dreadful words and then having to come and take everything in me to explain to my babies they'll never see their father again!!! Can one really make lemonade out of the lemon of losing a husband? Share Your Story Here. It has been 5 months and 14 days since I have seen his beautiful face, but yet it feels like yesterday that I saw his beautiful face. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't miss her. My precious husband passed away August 10th, 2012. I left my whole family to be with him. We have two children. Our world crumbled. He never made it home. My husband died 17 years ago today. The doctors went on to explain this was the beginning of the end for John. When I read what you wrote it was strikingly similar to how I feel. I am so sorry for your loss. I don't know what else to say.I just want him back so much! I will join him someday. I just don't know how or when this gets better. No one informed us of what happen to him until we found it from our family phone tracker. I miss him so much. He passed in his sleep. I had 30 wonderful years with him. I hope he is with my beloved son who we lost to suicide thirteen years ago. Until we see each other again. We were devastated and still grieve his loss every day! I held his hand and said "Let's make a pact right here right now that I will never lose you and you will never lose me". Yes I am still angry at the senseless act of some one else, that caused the life to be taken from my husband & father! He was so easy to talk to because we were going through the same thing. I'm so lost and angry, and I feel like I might be losing my mind, and more than anything else I feel like I need to be a better person for my babies. She was approaching the second anniversary of the death of her beloved husband. I, like you, miss hearing his voice. We met when I was 14 and have been together since. Your kisses fell sharp on my flesh like dawn-dews from the limb, I need to talk about my husband with someone who listens without judgement of how much I miss him. It's hard to sleep. After that there was one infection after another. Forever. My wife died 12 years ago. Will the pain ever go away. Well with Covid 19 lurking about, I decided to bring my husband home sooner. When You Miss Your Husband's Presence in Your Life Our youngest a girl turned 2, eight days after he was killed. I lost my husband 15 days, 8 hours and 8 mins ago we just burying him yesterday. You will never forget him but you will remember with fond memories and that will be a great comfort to you. He was also a very active person up until that day. My best friend, who was my husband, died 4 weeks ago and was buried 2 weeks ago. We fell in love and were married. He was the "wings beneath my wings". That is what keeps me going even though the tears still flow and the hurt is still so fresh. I'm ready to join him. I am in the air that you breathe. Hospice has bereavement counseling and I am going in March. In May, they said it started in his esophagus. November of 2017 we traveled the 73 miles to see the doctor. Our kids are all grown and they are all wonderful but the empty house when I come home at the end of the day is almost unbearable. Life just sucks. For My Husband Loving you has no end and no beginning Loving you is everything It is infinite in time And limitless in magnitude Beyond even my own comprehension Your love brings me home Enfolds me and warms me In its eternal embrace Right now, sad and lonely with nothing to look forward to of years more. Life will never be the same. You have every right. Poems About Missing Someone: The Wind is Blowin' - Charles Badger Clark When You Go - Jessie Belle Rittenhouse How It Used To Be - Melanie Edwards Sonnet 106 - Sir Philip Sidney Love - Pablo Neruda Absence - Mary Robinson Every Moment Heart Song Famous Missing You Poems These are examples of famous Miss You poems written by famous poets. He loved me unconditionally, and I feel lost without his presence and love. We were married 27 years and together for 29 years. We have 3 children: 10, 13, and 17. I went from planner of life to waiting for my own death. Not for me, you see true love never dies, I truly love my darling and he truly loved me. Eternal Love: A Collection of Romantic Love Poems for Husbands In today's world, where the roles of men and women are changing so rapidly it may be difficult for a husband to figure out his role. I demanded a bed with rails right away or I was signing him out of that place! It has been 2 months, and the pain is unbearable. He was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer July 12, 2018 and passed September 23, 2018. Another beautiful missing u poem inspired many who have their boyfriends and husbands in prison. I do not think I am strong enough to accept this and live without him. I can't explain it and only my heart understands why I feel so alone. He was enjoying the life. I lost my husband six months ago on a day like today and this this is exactly how I feel. I am a born again Christian, but l am in pain. I was touched by each poem and story. To be with him All I know is one day we will reunite in Heaven. I miss him terribly and it hurts. My Husband passed away December 19, I cry every night and most days. Tomorrow will be only two months, but it feels like a lifetime, forever. We had no children together, but I am blessed to have his 5 grown children and families in my life. Loss of a Spouse: 5 Things Only a Widow/er Understands I know your grief, and it hurts so bad. We did it, we did it, we would say. He was told when he was 48 he had liver cancer. I can honestly say that things do get better. I go to work, make sure I am there for our children & try to survive against all odds! Four months married and he was ripped away from me. Take care. It feels like he's been gone too long that it's time for him to come back to me. I felt like screaming and could not believe what I heard. He was 62 and I am about to be 50 in 3 weeks. l struggle mentally with my grief, and l only live so not to hurt my children any more than they already are. I miss him so much, and so much is on me. I still need him! I had to keep living for our sons, but inside part of me died with my husband. Now I'm shattered and wondering if God was laughing at me. I love her so much. I hope not. We were over the moon happy to get to find love again. What helps me is my children and grandchildren and my faith, but again it is what is unique to each person. He lost his voice. It was my first instinct as he was only 1 minute away in walking distance from our home. He uses them to help pull himself up to get into comfortable positions! What example would I be giving them when they're growing up? 16) My stomach churns. I get to remain in eternal grief. Dear Cheryl But counseling was the BEST thing they could have suggested. Each day I am certain he is with me . A joyless life being a man I no longer know. I still expect to wake up and this will all be the worst nightmare I've ever had. His absence will never be quenched. He was my rock, soul, and best friend. He had a very short battle. I know that we had what most just dream of. A third party took him away from me, one I could not fight and it consumed him and claimed his life. Sad to say but it still hurts like it did the first few months. You melted my heart. I don't feel strong. Made me feel mad, angry but sad and empty. Paramedics arrived and they took over to try to save him. Grieving is really hard and it's terribly sad every day. We met in Europe. I dread being alone. Our children needed him, I needed him, all we have is each other. Not a word, not an explanation, not a reason. It is a very lonely position, and I miss him so much; I think I can know how your grief hits you. Watching the shadows We promised each other that we will always be married to one another and that nothing and no one can separate us from our love for each other. I cry my silent tears. I also know that he would want nothing more than for me to be happy because that's how he lived his life every day. He passed away in his sleep from congestive heart failure. While he was signing in to see him, he collapsed and died. I pray all who are going through this get peace. So live your life, laugh again, enjoy yourself T Tamara Young Eulogy Quotes Motivational Quotes Inspirational Quotes I can see his face everywhere I go or in anything I do. I cry every day and can't believe . Finding guidance and encouragement from a . We have gone through the many stages of grief together. I lost my wife 22 years ago. We were together 21 years. God bless you. They did a CT of the chest and found stage 4 lung cancer. I don't even know how to feel. She grew from childhood, losing a lower leg from a farm accident, cancer tumor on vertebrae, paralyzed for over 2 years, cancer of the breast, 25 blood transfusions. This is complete misery. I have to pretend to be happy every day, pretend to be 'normal' whatever that is anymore. He had kidney cancer that metastasized to his brain. So during the day I try to be strong but when I get home I miss him so much. How the hell can you say that? Don't put a time limit on grief. I begin to feel as if God gave me this wonderful man to me in reparation of my painful life. I get up every day and think it is going to get better, sometimes it does and then it doesn't, unless you are with your friends or family. His eyes, oh his eyes, I don't know how to do this without him. Eventually we ended up in the hospital. Bless all of you. Xx. His bladder cancer had metastasized after 6 months of chemo and immunotherapy. We were making new memories. The emptiness I feel consumes me and as the days go by it gets harder and harder to go on.

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